Some thoughts I have shared with others that I wish to share
with you. Peter Daley
"God is all around me and
in me."
Say this at any time day or night
where ever you are. Say it when life is going well or when things are
not going so well. When you are going off to sleep. You can also take
it into your dreams at night. If you're having a nightmare or
unpleasant dream, say it. God does not create religions, churches or
shrines, man does, as a way to try to put bricks and mortar around a
belief in God. The prayer above creates a direct personal contact
with God.
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"Understand that your internal worth, preciousness, essence, is independent of what people say or have said about you, or how they treat you.”
Humans are social creatures, so can get
trapped into thinking what people say or do to them, represents their
worth as a person.
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If a loved one dies, he or she wants you to live a happy
fulfilling life. Making yourself miserable for long periods of time,
as a demonstration of your love for them, is not what they want from
you to demonstrate your love for them. Get out there and live life to
the full. People get trapped in remorse. They feel that the
more miserable they make themselves, the greater is the
demonstration of their love for the deceased.
Here is a poem
written by my partner Linda that clearly explains this concept.
A MESSAGE FROM THE ONE YOU'VE LOST
I know I left you broken hearted,
That fateful day, when I departed.
You felt your life had also ended,
Your broken heart could not be mended.
I saw your tears, I heard you cry,
You said I was too young to die.
You blamed yourself, now I was gone,
My death, your shoulders rested on.
I was touched, and thrilled you cared,
So much about the life we shared.
I loved you, and you loved me,
Who knew such soul mates we would be?
But now that time has slowly past,
You should be feeling calm at last.
But here you are, a crying still,
Your eyes with many tears still fill.
Come on now, get up my dear,
I'm worried now, and also fear,
You think your love for me will show,
If you grieve long, and hard and slow.
But your love for me appears,
In laughter, smiles, and not just tears.
You can't see me now, that's true,
But I am always there with you.
I want you to remember me,
But not if it means misery.
My heart is heavy when you're sad,
I feel much better when you're glad.
So live your life, and live it free,
Please don't mourn so constantly.
I'll do the same while were apart,
You are forever in my heart.
And when that fateful day does dawn,
When your own body, sick and worn,
Gives up on life, and your spirit soars,
You'll know I was, forever yours.
LINDA LAND ( You may freely
distribute this poem to anyone you feel it will help.)
If
you were the deceased and you could speak to your loved ones, what
would you be saying. Be happy get out there and live life to the
full. I realise you love me and miss me, but making yourself
miserable is a waste of life and pointless. They want you to be happy
and enjoy life!
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Your thoughts are
not you. Thoughts represent possibilities that you can
choose from and direct your energy to. If you don't direct energy to
a thought, emotionally, it becomes nothing more than a cloud in the
sky drifting by. So, if your have a thought that is
unpleasant, just let it drift by, be passive to the thought. If you
notice you are starting to react emotionally or psychically to the
thought say "STOP" relax, and refocus your thinking to
something else that is positive and enjoyable.
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God must think that creativity is extremely important, because he/she has gone to an awful lot of trouble creating reality!
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The purpose of life is to learn
to express your personal energy creatively and lovingly! The
happiest people are those who are focusing their personal energies
into the world creatively and lovingly. Isn't that what God is
doing.
For society to function fairly and for the
good of all, its citizens have to realize that individual rights have
to be balanced with social responsibility!
Rich or poor,
famous or unknown, powerful or weak, the only important valuable
thing that counts in life is how loving and compassionate you are to
people, and all living creatures around you!
Every
living cell in your body reacts instantly to the emotion you
associate with a thought. You have the power to change
your thinking.
The secret to happiness is very simple, make
the choice to be happy!
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Web master Peter Daley,
vital1@ozemail.com.au
� 1999 Daley
Positive Personal Development, All International Rights Reserved.
