44 / 31 Coming to Meet
Persuading, Seducing
(25->44->46->24)
"KOU : intense, driven encounter, at once transitory and enduring, that is the reflection of primal yin and yang; meet, encounter, copulate; mating animals; magnatism, gravity; to be gripped by impersonal forces." ERANOS p483
"[With cultivation comes Single-mindedness : Persuading/Seducing]
The prince uses the aid of fate to command all."
In hexagram 44 we are crossing the border. It symbolises the way from the light to the passive and seductive dark. A point of potential and non-innocence far from the actual and innocent. It is the path from the firm to the yielding, emphasized in the image by the using of the concept of fate as a tool to control the people (i.e. "It is supposed to be this way, it is fated."). The line comments emphasize the concept of holding on to things possibly past their, or your, time; their apparent 'value' keeping the tie. Contextually, we are combining seeding with commitment.
The raw context from which the situation derives is described by heaxgram 43 Seeding/Spread_out. It passes through hexagram 32 Commiting before reaching here.
By introducing this hexagram as context, you can change a state described by any other hexagram into a state described by hexagram 28. To make a state associated with another hexagram transform into this state, introduce hexagram 28 as context.
It is important to remember that, when using transformative methods, the more lines requiring change, the more energy required when attempting to introduce a different context. It may therefore be of benefit to work on existing changing lines and achieve your goal in steps rather than attempt, for example, a six-line change all at once.